|Learning to Trust the Universe by Debbie Styer 2013|
I am excited to write my third and final post for The Declaration of You! Blog Lovin' Tour. As some of you know, I took the Declaration of You! e-course a few years ago and fell in love with it. It pointed me in right direction and asked the kind of deep questions to get me off the coach and on to the work I was meant to bring into this world... The book The Declaration of You!
(which is inspired by the the e-course) by Michelle Ward
and Jessica Swift
and is out now for you all to enjoy.
This Week's topic: Trust!
I'm pretty hard on myself so trust is a difficult thing for me. I thought I had to make exactly all the right decisions in order for my life to work out miraculously perfect. If anything didn't work out as I planned, the self doubt and fear flowed...Sound like you?
Here's a little story on how I learned trust...
Now, I must say, I'm not a hugely religious person but years ago, before I met my amazing husband, I was having the worst time meeting anyone to love me. Sad but very true. Everything seemed to go wrong, the guys I was meeting were pretty terrible (both online and in the real world). I just didn't get it. The more I tried to control what was happening to me the worse it got, and the more desperate I got. It was not a pretty picture. And I was miserable.
Then one day things changed...I just let go. Everyday I would walk by this beautiful church and instead of pleading Help Me
to God (or the Universe, Buddha, or whatever you would like to call it), I starting saying Thank You
for the things that went wrong. I began learning from my mistakes and I could clearly see that what I wanted was not necessarily right for me. There must be a reason for the way my life was working out. I started to trust that there was some big plan for me out there in the Universe. I know it sounds silly, but it was one of the great epiphanies of my life.
Learning to trust in something bigger than me lifted so much weight off my shoulders. I didn't need to put so much pressure on myself when something went wrong, and I could better understand when something went right. I was learning to trust something deep inside myself, I was learning to trust my soul.
When I finally met my husband, I was able to see that this brilliant... crazy... crooked (and sometimes painful) pathway made absolutely perfect sense. Everyday, I still Thank the Universe for my life. I thank the Universe for my friends and family and all those who helped me become the person I am supposed to be.
Now, I open my heart again with my artwork
. Again I am trusting the Universe that there is a plan out there for me. Everyday, that I create more work and share it with the world, the pressure of self-loathing and fear is going away. My soul is connected to something big. And I feel like I am indeed on the right path. I may not know exactly where I might end up but I trust that it will be the right place for me. And I am happy...
A few things for you to ponder...
Learning to trust is a pretty powerful thing, don't you agree?
Do you trust you are on the right path for your soul?
Do you think there is a plan for you?
As I wrap up this last Declaration of You! post, I also wanted to thank Michelle and Jessica for helping me along my crazy path. You guys are awesome, and I wish you tons of success with this incredible book
. May it help lift, advise and encourage millions of people throughout the world.
One last thing, if you want to read my other Declaration of You! posts. They are here (on Success)
and here (on Self-Care